100 Cures for Blogger’s Block- Part 3! Finale from Little Red Writing Solutions

Finale!

Click the above link to download your copy of the finale to my mini series- 100 Cures for Blogger’s Block

Thanks for all of your supportive comments, I appreciate the love you share!

Lauren Jeffery

Little Red Writing Solutions

Little Red’s Guest Book- Meet Christie Lyons (Writer, Soul Sista and Mum of Two, including a Heart Kid)

1. Can you introduce yourself and what you do (Soul Sistas, your writing, study, family etc)

My name is Christie Lyons and I am a Mum of two gorgeous boys, Brendon (10) and Nate (4 months). I am the co-founder of Soul Sistas Healing & Guidance, which I operate with my sister in law Jess Welsh. I am also a writer, and have regular articles published which are shared on the Building Beautiful Bonds website. I have also had two of my stories published, and am currently working on a novel. I also study the Tarot, Astrology and Psychology part time.

 2. Can you describe the paths your career plans have taken you down? How have your career dreams and goals changed over the course of your working life?

I actually started out working in retail when I was a teenager and while I didn’t really feel as though it challenged me, I did gain a lot of confidence through customer service roles, and that was something I lacked previously. After my first son was born I decided to move to Geelong for a change, and I returned to study and gained my Diploma in Children’s Services. I very quickly learned that I loved working with children and as soon as I graduated, I moved into a full time role as a Kinder Teacher. Eventually, I was promoted to Director of the centre, however it ended up being sold out privately and I moved back to Melbourne where I commenced my role as Coordinator of a small community based childcare centre. While I was there, I gained my Advanced Diploma in Children’s services, as well as several other related qualifications, and once again, I gained so much knowledge and experience throughout my time there. Protecting children’s rights, as well as nurturing their emotional wellbeing will always be a passion of mine. 

 In early 2013, after a traumatic experience, I was reconnected with my passion for writing and found that it was extremely therapeutic. Since then, I have continued to write as a form of healing, and have even had two stories published and several articles on a regular basis. Writing is something that I thoroughly enjoy and knowing that my words are helping others just makes it even more worthwhile. I am currently working on a novel, which I hope to have completed and published by the end of the year. 

 In March 2013, my sister in law Jess and I decided to start a Facebook business called Soul Sistas Healing & Guidance. The main aim of this idea was for us to share our spiritual journey with others, and to pass on any knowledge we gained throughout our experiences. It has grown rapidly over the last 12 months, and we now offer several types of readings, guidance and products. 

 After my second son was born in October last year, I decided to resign from my position in early childhood to focus on being a Mum. After he was born with a congenital heart defect and had to undergo open heart surgery, my entire outlook on life changed. My priorities no longer laid with my career; but with my family. I decided that I wanted to spend as much time as possible concentrating on being the best Mum I can be with my sons. This shift in focus, as well as the time at home that I’d had on maternity leave also gave me the time to realise that I was no longer passionate about my job in early childhood, but that my writing and my journey with Soul Sistas was where I was meant to be. Being able to help others on such a bigger scale made me feel like I was truly on the right path.

 3. Please describe your work as a writer. What projects have you published (we can add links in here) and what are you working on at the minute? Is there anyone you’d like to collaborate with? What drew you in to writing? What do you love to write about and is there anything you will never write about?

 I’ve always loved to write; and used to actually write quite a lot as a child, but somehow that passion became lost amongst all the day to day things and for years, the only writing I continued to do was in my journal. It was when I lost my angel baby in December 2012 that I came across Karen McDermott’s book ‘The Visitor’, which is a beautiful, spiritually based story about going through this process, that I found my passion for writing come to the surface again. After reading her book, I contacted Karen and she encouraged me to write about my personal journey. I did this, and had a very detailed and long story about my life completed within just a few days. It was so amazingly therapeutic for me, and I found that it really helped me to heal from my past hurts and traumas just through the process of writing it out. This story ended up being published in a book called ‘Journey to Inner Light’, which is a collection of inspiring stories from people who have found strength and peace through their life journey.

 From that point on I felt a need to share more of my life experience, and so I was encouraged once again by the beautiful Karen to share my thoughts and feelings through published articles on the website www.buildingbeautifulbonds.com. I continue to do this on a regular basis, and more often than not, a thought just pops into my head and I write these articles as it comes to me. My articles so far can be read through the Building Beautiful Bonds website (above) and I also have a Facebook page set up to share my writing journey.

 I have recently had a very special book published, which is aimed at children and families of children that have been affected by congenital heart disease called ‘Nate’s Special Healing Heart’. I wrote this after my eldest son suggested the idea to me after my youngest son Nate underwent open heart surgery at just ten days old. Once again, Karen McDermott (who also owns and operates Innerlight Publishing) kindly offered to cover the publishing costs of this book, so we are able to donate 100% of proceeds to HeartKids. This book can be purchased here.

 At the moment I am working on a couple of projects. I have started writing my very first novel, which is all about my life journey and how my boys have influenced and brought about so many changes in my life. I am also working on some spiritually based children’s books with my sister in law and business partner Jess, where the main focus will be on encouraging children’s confidence and emotional wellbeing. 

 4. My readers may not have heard of Soul Sistas- can you describe what you do? Who are your targetted clients? (please add links to your business social media profiles if you’d like to)

 Soul Sistas Healing & Guidance started out as a small Facebook page where my sister in law Jess and I wanted to share our spiritual journey with other like-minded people. We found that it grew very rapidly, and we now have over 1500 members that regularly interact with the page – it is more like a little community. It is a very interactive community, and we are always more than happy to discuss different aspects of spirituality with others, whether it be publicly on the page, or in private. The list is endless, but some of the recent focuses have been dealing with grief, communicating with spirit and angels, letting go of the past, and meditation tips. We regularly share positive affirmations, and the page is one full of understanding, love and compassion for each other. We do not believe that we are any more knowledgeable than anyone else on the page; and are continually learning ourselves. 

 Both Jess and myself have received over twelve months extensive training in reading the Tarot, as well as a basic course in Astrology, and our mentor Lynda is an amazing woman with years and years of the further gifts that are being brought to the surface for us as we continue to open up spiritually. Often when we are performing a reading for a client, we will also receive messages from our guides, the angels or loved ones in spirit. 

 At the moment we offer several different products and services, including but not limited to: Oracle and Angel Card Readings, Mediumship Readings, Numerology and Tarot. We also sell oracle cards, books and metaphysical products. Our services are certainly not limited to this however, as we are continually sharing our ideas, research and thoughts with all the members on the page. If there is something we are unsure about, or need more information on, we take the time to find out! We are learning just as much as everyone else, every time someone has a question that they would like answered. An example of this is when one of our members asked us about ‘Empaths’. Not only were we able to answer their question with loads of information, but it also allowed us to learn more about Empaths as well.

 Soul Sistas is a wonderful caring community of like-minded people who simply wish to share their spiritual journey with others. The fact that we can provide clients with a reading if they wish, is just an added bonus of this wonderfully inspiring page.

 Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/SoulSistasHealing

Website: http://www.soulsistashealing.com/

 5. Could you describe your personal and professional goals?

 At the moment my focus is first and foremost on being a Mum. I want to be able to be there emotionally as well as physically for my sons, and for them to know that they can talk to me about anything. I intend on encouraging them to be exactly who they are, for them to have pride in themselves and their strengths, and to live the life that THEY wish to live.

 As Soul Sistas continues to grow, we have plans to one day have our own shop where we can offer face to face readings and have a sanctuary for our clients to relax in. I also plan on training in Reiki later this year and this will be another service that we can offer. Jess has almost completed her Life Coaching qualification, so I am sure that this will be something that she will be offering as well. 

 Jess and I both intend on extending our guidance to children sometime in the future; through books and possibly even workshops. The sky is the limit as far as we are concerned, as more and more people are opening up to the fact that there is more to life than they realise. 

 6. In terms of small business with Soul Sistas and being a published writer,

- do you have any advice for up and coming writers?

My main advice would be to ‘go for it’. Everyone has a story within them, and once you start, you will find that it flows very easily. I also suggest speaking with Innerlight Publishing, as they are an amazing publishing company who focus on helping new writers to start their journey.

 – what struggles have you faced in business and what are the most important lessons you have learnt?

The most important thing I have learned so far is to make sure I take time for myself. There’s no point in working 24 hours a day and not enjoying life, because that’s not what life is all about. The other important thing I would suggest is to always, always listen to what your clients want. I mean really listen, and act upon it when you can. 

 – what and or who inspires you and what motivates you to achieve your goals?

My sons inspire me. My eldest son Brendon is such a unique, emotionally intelligent soul, and he often gives me inspirational ideas. My motivation is purely because I receive joy from helping others.

 – describe your writing process

Like I said earlier, I generally get a thought pop into my head, and I have to write it down straight away. I actually receive channeled messages from spirit as well, and so some of my work is through a process called ‘automatic writing’. Basically what happens is, I tune into the energy of my guides or spirit, and type whatever comes into my mind. Sounds simple really, but it is an amazing gift and I am very blessed to have it.

 – do you put high expectations on yourself and how do you deal with setbacks?

I do often try to get too much done in one day. I have recently learned to take a step back and take some time out for myself so that I don’t burn out. In the business that I’m in, I am confident that my clients would much prefer that my mind is clear before reading for them, and so they understand that Jess and I have children and other commitments as well.

 – what do you gain from writing ?

Oh wow, so so much. It’s a healing process for me, especially when I am writing about my own experiences. I also find that when I’m writing it is extremely relaxing for me; almost like meditation. Knowing that my words have helped others gives me  so much joy and fulfillment.

 – how do you deal with writers block? is there such a thing?

I believe there probably is such a thing, but I also believe that if you’re finding it hard to write at a certain point in time, then the words aren’t meant to be written yet.

 10 Fast Facts:

1. your favourite food

Popcorn

2. your favourite non-alcoholic beverage

Coke

3. your favourite book- non fiction!

The Visitor by Karen McDermott as it changed my life

4. the quote you live by

Everything happens for a reason

5. your lucky charm/s

I have several crystal pendants (each one with different uses)

6. your interesting or quirky talent

Still developing this, but I believe I have Reiki abilities

7. your favourite word

Awesome

8. your least favourite sound

People chewing

9. your next project in one sentence

Helping children through spirituality

10. three words to describe you as a person

Passionate, determined, Kind

 

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Christie (L) & her SIL and partner in healing, Jess

(Image courtesy of the talented Christie herself)

 

Thank you SO SO much Christie for sharing your story, experience and dreams with me. I can’t wait to watch it all unfold and cheer you on along the way

 

Lauren @LittleRed

 

 

http://www.innerlightpublish.com/

 

Happy to be contacted about writing/Soul Sistas etc: soulsistachristie@live.com

 

I’ve also attached a photo of Jess and I

 

 

Happy to put up a link and information re: Heart Kids if you’d like, up to you.

 

http://www.heartkids.org.au/

 

This is My Guardian Angel

This is My Guardian Angel

This is my Mum and I, one of the last photos I could find taken of just us together. I miss the hell out of this woman. She was incredible. She is an inspiration to me: to work hard, to love harder. She was never truly appreciated for who she was. She gave until she couldn’t give anymore. I love her and today, as I sit here wishing she was here, I’m so bloody thankful that she was my Mum.

If It Doesn’t Challenge You, It Doesn’t Change You

I’ve been on an extended break from Little Red Writing Solutions to focus on my family commitments over the Christmas and New Year period. It has been wonderful to just be with my children and my husband and to be able to just relax and have fun without any major planning.

In the back of my mind however, I have been going over and over what heading back to “work work” will mean for me. I write during the night when my children are asleep and I have a part-time day job which keeps me more than occupied.

But soon, my contract will end and I’ll need to find more “work work”. You may or may not know that I am a Registered Nurse and was working in Surgical Nursing until I went on Maternity Leave to have my daughter in December of 2012. Alongside writing. Then in April of last year, my Mother passed away unexpectedly and my whole career vision started to shift. I couldn’t go back to Nursing out of fear of breaking down in front of patients. I couldn’t face introducing myself to a patient with the same name as my Mother. I was frightened to leave my children to go and care for other families when I needed to be around them so badly. So it was with this sudden change of heart that I decided to let myself look into other options, without feeling “guilty” for leaving Nursing.

I made the decision to take on a temporary contract at a hospital I was very familiar with, just so I could work, heal and have the time I desperately wanted with my young children. The job has been wonderful. I’ve really enjoyed it and still have a few months left.

In the meantime, as I continue to write for Little Red part-time, I’ve happily and proudly come to a conclusion. With my extensive public health care experience and my profound passion in the areas of grief and bereavement, depressive illness, anxiety and panic disorders and mental illness, I can happily announce I’ve been accepted into a Masters in Psychology program.

I needed to take greater responsibility for my long-term happiness and for the future of my family and believe that this path in life is for me. So with this career change, so changes the rest of my life! I haven’t left Nursing behind yet and I’m not sure if I ever will, but for now, I’m putting all my (spare) energy into this new program, combined with Little Red.

Little Red will continue on as normal (refer to my Facebook page for opening hours and the product/ service listing), I just needed to share my good news.

Cannot wait for these new challenges to test every inch of me!

Lauren @LittleRed

Thank You from Me to You {big hearts}

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I’ve been blogging for a small portion of my life, but writing for longer. I didn’t realise how much fun and how therapeutic blogging was until I started my own copywriting business.

My ideas can be random, my thoughts can be scattered, my ideas can be personal and not always business-focused. I write for myself, no matter what, and hopefully, kind people who take a look at my work enjoy what I write, agree/disagree with my words or feel inspired to write something for themselves.

I can’t imagine my world without being able to write in this way. And I love what I do. So thank you from the bottom of my heart to all of you lovely people who have either stopped by my blog, commented in some way on a post or two or liked my work.

You have no idea how much it means to me when I get a notification saying “X liked your post” or “Y likes Little Red & Her Writing”. It turns any darkness in my day to light!

Love.

LEJ.

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